When you are family you are involved.  You have responsibilities and obligations that need to be adhered to.  These were God given.  With that being said I love my Family,my biological and my In laws.  I love you all because we are blessed to have been hand pick to be apart of each others lives.

  Nothing makes you more proud but to see family succeed, but what is even better is when you are apart of that accomplishment. Kudos to those that had to do it by themselves, no bragging rights there. Why I say this is because it is a endless cycle of reminding people of their failures.  

I think that if you treat a man as if he were a failure he will remain a failure. Treat him as a great and he will be just that.

I hope today everyone is having a blessed morning.  I am not quite awake yet but I am getting there. I woke up leaning for my laptop. I felt an urge to just look and search and wonder.  So much goes through my mind when I hit the Internet I find my self branching out into ten different directions. While reaching out to love ones and trying to respect people boundaries can be a challenge because some people do not know how to accept people help. Maybe they think they do not need any help. I can agree to disagree with anyone on this topic.

So I am this bucket of information and I am not foing to let someones strong will or stubborness dump knowlege out the window. I feed my mind constantly. Any how I found unclaimed finaces for my family in - laws and immediate.  This felt good even though it was not for me, it will prove to be benificial to others. This is how I believe how family should operate.  Open up to the fact that we have an inherited responsibility to share the wealth with others that being said and for clarity I am not talking about money.  But the tools you need in life to get that money.

So tady I am in the pursuit of happiness and I want everyone to shine.

Today Is A New Day

I went to bed last night not feeling great. Tired and feeling as if I did something or rather did not do something to deserve the silent treatment from my husband.  Our family is grieving right now.  He says his grief process has passed and I know deep inside he is lying.  Lying to save face or even to be strong for those who need his strength.  I can not say he is without strengths but I think that he draws his strength from the wrong place and in turn what ever  he puts out just paves a road of destruction.

In part my own selfish needs want to say I need you, you are suppose to be there for me. but I know that it is my turn to be there for him. How do you that when you are hurt from the emotional abuse you get from your spouse?  For me right now it is just this write about it and think " What is my Purpose Driven Life?"

I have to set a few goals for myself in order to see today as a new day and not a bitter reminder of yesterday and with that said I am going to accept that my Purpose here in life is to LOVE and that is it.  There is no other higher purpose for us as people in this world other than love. So to my husband who is grieving right now I know you will probably not read this, but I love you and that being said we will get through this.

Today is a new day and I going to Love today. In Loving Memory of Minnie "MJ" Downing.  You are missed dearly, I love You, We all Love You.

I LOVE YOU MINNIE